Gymnastics competition season is on. I planned to show the gymnastics
bags we made for the kids to motivate them for the competitions but I will do
that later. I first want to raise a concern.
We do not tend to dress the twins identical, their hair is cut
differently and we do not usually refer to them as ‘The Twins’. Nevertheless it
is inevitable to compare some of their actions especially as they both
participate in gymnastics competitions. They are in separate classes at school,
but in gymnastics they evidently have to compete in the same level and the same
age category.
At the prize-giving ceremony Omar usually ends up lower than his
brother on the individual apparatus and so in the overall ranking. Most
children don’t like losing but it is even harder when your brother carries the
medals home and you can only look and crave to have some too.
On top of that Elias cannot enjoy his wins as he feels bad that his
brother misses out on the medals and he feels bad beating his brother. So
either way I end up with two sad boys. Even for us as parents and their sisters
it results in ambivalent feelings as on the one hand you are happy Elias won
something, and at the same time you do not want to praise him too much as that
is rubbing it in for the other one.
Luckily they had their last competition today and we can go back to
regular training without worrying about this double trouble.